Today I am going to speak about the human desire to please all the people all the time. I personally have been letting this desire run my life for a very long time. I have only recently realized that not only is it unnecessary, it really gets in the way of who I am.
So I suggest to you today, that you start to look at this habit very carefully. In order to truly examine in what ways you are applying this habit, may I suggest that you begin to listen very carefully to the words you use around different people.
This is is one of the first ways we can see how we are trying to please all the people. You will notice that with different people, you use different words, different speech patterns, different mannerisms, and you will also become aware that you segregate your subject matter, depending on whom you are speaking to.
I submit that if we are truly being ourselves, and if we are truly determined to be the best that we can be at being ourselves, then we need to STEP OUTSIDE THE FEAR THAT STOPS YOU FROM SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH TO ALL PEOPLE.
I know that at first this will be difficult, especially with people that have been a part of your life for a long time, both friends and family. And I know that you will really be in your fear when it comes to applying this concept to people you work for or with. But I submit to you that while you are in the process of living up to the potential that you truly are, being in your highest light, and knowing the truth of yourself, you must take this step. Because until you step out of the fear of speaking your truth at all times to all people, you will not be living in your highest light.
There will probably be many times that others will not agree with what you have to say, and that's all right. Everyone is on their own path, in their own progress, at their own pace. And not everyone is in the same place you are. In fact, you will not be in the same place you were in when you started reading this article by the time you finish it. So remember that not everyone has to be in the same place at the same time. And if they disagree with something you say, honor them with love and know that they are exactly where they need to be at this moment, and you are exactly where you need to be at this moment. It's all relative.
I also submit that by applying this practice, you will slowly begin to see that there may be people in your life that you have held on to, that it is now time to release. As we go through life, each on our own path, at our own pace, people come and go in our lives as our paths change and diverge. Accept this with love and honor the time you have spent with everyone in your life.
When you find that you need to release someone to continue on their path without you, do so with great love and compassion, and gratitude for whatever time they have been in your life. Accept whatever lessons you brought to each other, and know that in the greater scheme of things, we are all one.
Blessings to you on your path. Sistersea
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